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Nicole Scherzinger has some breakup advice for you

"Build yourself back up and be that big, radiant light" she says

By Verinia Khoo | Published: 27 May 2015

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Nicole Scherzinger has been single for a while now but she isn't letting her split with Formula One driver Lewis Hamilton get in the way of happiness. In fact, she's gotten a lot out of the heartache.

"Sometimes people stay in relationships because they get complacent, because it's comfortable for them, because they don't want to be alone," she told People. "It's a new chapter in my life. I'm going through a very transformative time."

But that's not all the former Pussycat Doll had to say about life and relationships. Nicole also said she has used the opportunity to find her "ultimate destiny."

"For me, what's helped me to get through this is I'm quite a spiritual person," she said. "It's grounded me, and I realise that I do have a great purpose in life. If relationships or people in your life are meant to be, then they will come back around, but that shouldn't be what's holding you back. A lot of the time when you're in a relationship, you lose yourself and you lose who you are and what makes you special. You're always putting all your energy on someone else, so find yourself again. Build yourself back up and be that big, radiant light."

We're glad that Nicole is happy and it seems like Lewis is happy too, dating whoever it is he's dating.

Related: Nicole Scherzinger confesses about her eight-year battle with bulimia


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